Hi @garmeow! I’m very sorry for what you both are going through. I bled in 2000 from one AVM at 18. I bled that summer in the hospital from a second AVM. Then in 2010 I experienced a third bleed. Finally just recently the doctors at Duke University found a remnant AVM by angiogram but it had already bled at an earlier date in 2017/18.
Not sure if that helps. I have surrendered my driver’s license and contacted the department for the blind and visually impaired. I wish I had better news for you and wish you all the best!