Hi there, welcome to Living with Ben’s Friends. How are you doing? I’m glad you found us at this stressful and scary event of your life, and hopefully alongside with your family, we can help you to get through this. Many people feel overwhelmed when such a big news come unannounced in life, but you are already being proactive and positive by reaching out for help! If you don’t mind, feel free to share more about your story or your concerns in the general forum or any specific forum!