Hello Martin, and welcome to Living With Ben’s Friends! I’m glad you found us at the beginning of this tough journey, and I hope we can provide the kind of help and support you are looking for. Your partner is lucky to have you on his/her side! To learn more about anything related to AVM, you can always start by reading other posts. I found the “Guide” tab on your top right corner is a good place to start. Please also feel free to start your own thread if you have any questions at any time. We are all here for each other.