Maybe not knowing was better

Finally got my son in for his first MRI and nerologist appointment. We at first thought he had one small avm. They now say he has an avm that has bled twice in the past without our knowledge. Damage to left and right frontal lobes and around the brain stem. Also has a hematoma inside a possible anurism. Starting to get a lot more scary! We had no idea it was this bad. Now it’s more waiting for the neurologist to talk to the neurosurgeon about options.