Another aneurysm

This weekend I went to the emergency room at the hospital near my house. My neck was hurting and the trapezius muscle was swollen. They give me a cat scan and discovered I had another small aneurysm. My doctor told me he won't operate on it now. He will keep an eye on it. I am overwhelmed with this diagnosis and my only son was distraught. Does anyone have a story like mine and what are you going to do?